A first date can be exciting or excruciating. It can leave you madly hoping that this new attraction goes further (much further) or that you never see the other person again. The signs view this crucial first step in different ways, and their varying approaches are a good indicator of how they approach romance in general. Read on for a glimpse of first dates for each of the twelve signs.
Aries is after something that gets his blood pumping. Whether he takes you dancing, climbing, or into the bedroom, most of the activities will probably be impulsive. And there must be an element of challenge. Meaning, he’s turned on by the chase, if you don’t make it too obvious that you’re going to have sex with him. Or, the climb he choose pushes both of you to your limits. Bonus points if he impresses you by rescuing a stranded climber.
There will be a second date if: he’s still hungry for you, but not starving. He craves risk, but is impatient for results.
She’s still deciding if you’re suitable for her, but there’s nothing she loves more than quietly indulgent times with someone she’s attracted to. There will probably be excellent food and a relaxed, sensual vibe. But don’t get excited — it’s way too early for sex. What she really wants is to know if you’ll be compatible with her for the long haul. The evening will not be elaborate, but she’ll have it planned it out. And you’ll both be sticking to that plan.
There will be a second date if: you check the one or two boxes on her list. It’s a basic list, but it’s non-negotiable.
He’ll get to know you via a rapidly shifting conversation that covers every subject imaginable. Are you as interesting as you first seemed to be? He’ll ask questions and won’t focus on the answers. But if the mental connection is there, he’ll be riveted. First date sex? He may not even know if it’s going to happen. If it does, don’t assume you’ve sealed the deal. He’s a collector of new experiences, and you may just be one more experience. Or, maybe you’re the puzzle he hasn’t figured out yet.
There will be a second date if: he still wants to talk to you.
Be prepared to share your feelings. It will be a show of faith if you match her confessions with some of your own. She wants to know if she can feel safe when she tells you (shyly) how much she likes you and how you remind her of so-and-so from her childhood. While anxiously attempting to establish a bond, she’s closely monitoring you for any signs of distaste or mockery as she moves in for that hug (literal and metaphorical). First date sex depends on how emotionally intimate the two of you have become.
There will be a second date if: she’s let you in and it feels right.
This is the perfect time for Leo to make a dazzling first impression. She’ll feel a surge of pride when she sees the love and amazement in your eyes … because you’ve never met anyone as talented and smoking hot as Leo. She’ll pull out all the stops on her appearance and to show you a good time. Whatever the date consists of, you can bet it will involve something excessively fun, romantic and expensive. Despite her outrageous display of flirting, she’s unlikely to jump into bed with you. Leo is worth waiting for.
There will be a second date if: you treat her like royalty while proving that you know how to have a good time.
Within the first five minutes, he’s identified sixteen different things about you that need to be improved. He can help you with that. He also suspects that you’ve noticed the thing he does/has/lacks and have decided it’s intolerable. All this will be spinning through his mind while he talks with you. He may listen more than he talks, encouraging you to open up with carefully targeted questions. He’s probably too nervous to even think about sex at this point.
There will be a second date if: you check all the boxes on his intricately detailed list. But if he really likes you and you miss a few boxes, that’s ok (he can help you reach his goals).
This is Libra’s finest moment: you’re both starry-eyed and blind to each other’s imperfections. He’ll spin his sugary romance with classic displays: flowers, your favorite restaurant, and whatever else he thinks will make you happy. Everything will be so perfect, you’ll think you’ve met your dream guy. Sex is a maybe yes/maybe no proposition. He gets caught up in the moment, but if he’s really into the courtly romance thing, he might be old-fashioned.
There will be a second date if: the first date ends on a gracious yet exciting note. He loves the tingle of more to come, as long as there’s nothing awkward or unpleasant.
This is Scorpio’s opportunity to peel back the first layer. He’s investigating you, while showing you a sliver of his dark self. How you react to his probing questions and creepy/seductive eye contact will tell him what he needs to know. He’s already done a background check on you, but he’ll ask you these questions anyway. If you lie, it’s game over. The atmosphere will reek of heavy, immolating sex, but it won’t actually happen until he knows you can be trusted.
There will be a second date if: you’re not afraid of him, and you’re wiling to go all the way (whatever way he chooses).
Do you have to call it a date? All she wants is a happy, chill get-together. Her friends may be there. She’ll invite you along to the barbecue on the beach/out-of-bounds hike/house party. There’s a chance things could get crazy, because she doesn’t do moderation. At some point, she’ll probably make a joke that’s awkward or offensive. Despite her lack of restrictions, first date sex may not happen. If it feels somehow wrong or dishonest, she’s not interested (yet).
There will be a second date if: you’re up for anything, and can laugh about the outcome.
He’s scoping you out as a potential partner. Hence, your underlying suspicion that this is a job interview. The entire date will be planned out, and it will be very classy. If he seems a bit formal, it’s because he’s nervous. He wants to impress you with his first-date skills, but he’s afraid this might be a mistake. What if he lets you in and you destroy him? It will take awhile for him to let his guard down, and sex will be something that happens in the distant future.
There will be a second date if: you check all the boxes on his stringent list. Few make the cut.
The intellectual connection will be hugely important. The venue won’t be crazy, and the activity won’t be wild. She just wants to see if you’re the one who gets her needs for independence and introversion. This is best accomplished in a quiet place where the two of you can chat. If you bore her, she’ll still be friendly. But if she’s really into you, watch for an unnerving amount of eye contact. Sex is unlikely this early in the game.
There will be a second date if: she’s still curious about you, and she detects no traces of neediness or jealousy.
If he had his way, he’d skip over the first date and just move in with you, since you’re obviously his soulmate. But he doesn’t want to scare you off, so get ready for some dreamy moments that include wine, music, and long conversations where you and he share absoltuely everything. It may be too early for sex, or it may be just the right time for sex. He’s sensitive (even a bit shy) but will go where the evening takes him.
There will be a second date if: nothing punctures his conviction that you and he were meant to be.
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