How to Tell If Venus in Gemini Likes You Back

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Sometime it seems as if Venus in Gemini likes everyone back. She’s friendly, chatty and curious. It’s not difficult to catch her eye, but the challenge lies in keeping her attention. Here’s a hint: she values a mental connection over everything else.

Social Butterfly

Venus in Gemini is the original social butterfly. She gathers a bit of information here, makes a new friend there. She wants to know, discuss and learn new things. But, she also wants to keep it light and fun. If you approach her with anything new and intriguing, you have an excellent chance of getting her attention. Keeping her attention will demand your wit and ability to talk about things in a quick, insightful manner. If she indicates that she wants to take the conversation further (maybe over coffee) you’ve got her attention. For now.

If Venus in Gemini is willing to step away from the social mix and actually focus on one option (you) you’ve made an impression. Now, you need to keep the conversation going. Not to put too fine a point on this, but it really is all about the intellectual connection. He’s a collector of information and experiences, so if you have something new to teach him, and you have a lot to say about it, things may progress. Turnoffs include your sad stories or rigid conversational rules. If your idea of a connection involves sharing deep emotional experiences, you’ll overwhelm him. But you can’t stay silent. The trick with Venus in Gemini is your willingness to lightly touch on any subject matter. Nothing is taboo, but nothing is so serious that it can’t be dropped in an instant when the subject changes.

Don’t be fooled by her superficial demeanor — Venus in Gemini is a sharp cookie, and will immediately know if you’re the possessive or demanding type. Then, it will be game over, before you even realize it. She won’t come out and say it, but she’ll avoid future opportunities for a second date. If you see each other on a regular basis, she’ll still be friendly, and she may even exchange quips with you on social media. But there will be no intimate get-togethers. Speaking of which, sex on the first date may or may not happen. Venus in Gemini doesn’t have strict rules about intimacy. If she’s curious and there’s enough of a connection, she’ll go there. Why not? Sex with someone new is another experience, and she’s not shy, judgemental or uptight. But this doesn’t guarantee a relationship.

Catching the Butterfly

If you’re looking for a sure commitment, Venus in Gemini can make one. Any sign can. But of all the signs, he’s more likely to need a lighter touch and the assurance that you’re not going to restrict him. Gemini is the sign of multiple options, so it’s possible that he’s dating more than one person. Or, he’s leaving his options open. Then again, maybe the connection between you is so strong that he decides you’re the one. If you’re looking for a cut-and-dried guarantee with Venus in Gemini, it’s a difficult call.

But let’s say that the connection is super-strong and she chooses you. This is more likely to happen if the two of you can talk about anything, and there’s always something new to talk about. If you’re the strong, silent type, Venus in Gemini is less likely to want to establish anything long-term with you. She wants a relationship with endless, bite-sized discoveries and an ongoing conversation that continually evolves. She’s also looking for a companion. Gemini is the sign of the twins, so despite her interest in all things new, she wants a relationship with someone who will enjoy what she enjoys. You don’t have to be exactly like her, but shared activities will be important.

How do you destroy a relationship with Venus in Gemini? Be heavy-handed and demanding. Be suspicious of every new social contact he makes. Flip out when you catch him saying anything slightly flirtatious on social media, and forbid him to have any friends that he might possibly be attracted to. Do everything you can to limit his experiences. This assumes that your Venus in Gemini partner is faithful, and not crossing the line with his flirting. Just keep in mind that even when he’s totally committed, he’ll always seek out other people to interact with. One person will never be his everything.

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