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If you’re obsessing over someone with Venus in Scorpio, you’ve got good reason. This magnetic creature of the zodiac has an irresistible intensity that can drive a person to great distraction. But figuring out whether or not Venus in Scorpio is obsessing over you too is a real mystery. This one keeps it all very close to the chest–even the stuff you’d think is no big deal to share openly. Here’s how to peer into Venus in Scorpio’s heart and find out if you’re even making a dent:
Hope You Like Chicken
But first: Are you good at waiting? Think you can out-wait Venus in Scorpio? Do you like a good game of chicken? These not-so-rhetorical questions are actually clues that your Venus in Scorpio crush isn’t going to help you out too much by making the first move. Now sure, there’s the general assertion that “if he doesn’t move in on you then he’s just not that into you.” Yes, but…then there’s Venus in Scorpio. I don’t want to hold out false hope here, but the Scorpio lover is so contained about affairs of the heart that you might need to give it a little–make that a lot of–time before giving up on him or her.
It’s All On You
And it’s not just time or patience you’ll need; whether you’re a demure romantic or a confident gutsy go-girl, you need to make the first play. Make it bold. Venus in Scorpio doesn’t have a vast amount of self-esteem to believe that your subtle moves are a play for him. Underneath the surface calm of your Venus in Scorpio crush is a heart that beats with a formidable amount of insecurity or fear. No wonder, for love goddess Venus is a bit out of her element in the deep and psychologically turbulent waters of Scorpio’s realm. So help a guy out and get the ball rolling before the two of you forget what you’re pining for in the first place.
What kind of moves will land on Venus in Scorpio? Try an invitation to dinner. Don’t confuse her by making it a group affair. She’s going to privately torture herself over whether it’s a date or a dinner party. Make it a one-on-one thing. Here’s the deal: if she bites, so to speak, she’s into you. Or you text her something flirtatious and funny, and she feels comfortable enough to risk texting back in the same vein. The point being: it’s on you to initiate contact.
Simple, right? How we wish–for who hasn’t fallen under the spell of Venus in Scorpio? Let’s say she said yes to your first move. That means that she’s going to drop the mystery routine and spill all of her secrets, right? Nope. Give that up. If you want to lose Venus in Scorpio before you’ve even landed her, you will badger her for the scoop on whatever she holds within the privacy of her heart. I recommend not pushing her to bare her soul before you’ve earned her complete trust. Partial trust, I mean; Venus in Scorpio will keep one eye open as a cautionary measure as long as you’re in the picture. Don’t fault her for this; it’s part of her wiring.
But do take comfort knowing that if he’s still in the conversation with you, Venus in Scorpio is into you. He may not say so in as many words, understand. But the fact that he’s either hanging out with you–whether in public or private–or texting, talking, messaging…means that he finds you intriguing and/or hot.
On the other hand: if she stops returning your texts, calls and messages know that you have crossed a line. Winning her back may be more difficult than getting her to agree to that first date you had. What line did you cross, you may well ask? It’s perhaps invisible to anyone but Venus in Scorpio. But making assumptions as to her level of interest and her availability is an insult to her. Assuming that her Scorpionic signature implies she’s ready for sex just because you are is a no-no. Being clueless about balance and fairness will turn her off. Think of it this way: Venus transits 50/50 Libra before reaching Scorpio; so this sign intuitively understands and expects right relationship, regardless of how much obsessing she is infamous for. And Venus in Scorpio will quietly walk away if you pay zero attention to the niceties of courtship.
So where does that leave you if you are bent on bedding this alluring lover? Play by Venus in Scorpio’s implicit rules by
- making a good strong first move. Nothing crude or arrogant, just something that makes it clear you’re looking for more than a networking opportunity.
- Appreciate and respect Venus in Scorpio’s mystique; you’re not going to be privy to everything he thinks about, so don’t try to pry it out. You’ve got your secrets too, haven’t you?
- Allow a generous portion of time–think weeks–for things to develop between you. Venus in Scorpio will not be rushed.
- Celebrate if Venus in Scorpio returns your gestures and invitations. In time she will reciprocate by reaching out to you first. That will come when you’ve earned your stripes with this lover.
Related: Why Scorpio men won’t tell how they feel about you
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