Four Ways to Know That You’re the Bad Girl of Your Sign

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What’s the definition of a “bad girl” or “bad boy”? The woman who boldly goes after who she wants. The man who lives life according to his rules. She’s a bit edgy, and there’s a whiff of the forbidden about him. The bad girl/bad boy does what everyone else wishes they had the courage to do. Even the most conservative signs have examples of this behavior, appropriate for the sign. This is where it’s useful to step away from rigid definitions of some signs as “good” or “bad.” It really depends on how the energy is used. Read on to see if you’re the badass of your sign. Note that all signs can fit into any of the four categories below. The signs used are just examples.

Flirting With The Shadow

You flirt with the Shadow side, but don’t let it consume you. Your behavior suggests some of the less evolved qualities of your sign, but you never push it too far. This is a skillful blend of light, seasoned with dark.

Aries: you walk the line between confidently assertive and selfishly pushy. You come on strong, leaving the object of your affection no time to decide if he’s attracted to you (but he probably is).

Scorpio: you wield concentrated magnetism to draw your lover in, and there will be some emotional engineering. You stop just short of full-on manipulation, but use your insight to get closer to her than anyone ever has.

Capricorn: you know exactly who you want, and you target him. Your cool confidence and determination make it clear to your lover that you’re the boss, and at times you’re controlling. But love is always your priority.

No Apologies

You know who you are, and make no apologies. You own all of your sign, even the qualities that get a bad rap.

Taurus: you cheerfully enjoy steak at a table of vegetarians, and consume butter in a world of food shaming. If you’re a few pounds overweight, you just don’t care. That stubborn, sensual enjoyment translates to sex, your fixation on your lover, and your insistence on doing things your way — at all times.

Virgo: you’ve turned fault-finding into a fine art. You lace compliments with critiques, while focusing intently on your love interest. She’s almost perfect, but if she sticks with you, she could become outstanding.

Libra: you lay on the charm, sugar and skill that makes your date feel like he’s the only one in the room. But you’re also flirting with the waiter. You cheerfully own up to being a flirt, and it’s ok because you do it appropriately.

Make Your Own Rules

You certainly don’t follow the crowd. Rather, you embrace what’s unacceptable, unusual or not cool.

Cancer: you are the crazy/demanding partner that online articles caution others to avoid. You don’t play it cool, you invade your partner’s space, and you’re needy several times a day. Your emotions (weepy, loving, angry, sentimental) are on full display for whomever you’re intimate with. Sometimes all at once.

Aquarius: following your own path seems obvious. Don’t all Aquarians do this? Yes, but not every Aquarian is an out-and-out rebel. You are — and you don’t give a crap what anyone thinks. Maybe you never want a committed relationship, and you make this clear to your lovers. Maybe your lifestyle choices keep you isolated or unstable. That’s how you like it, and anyone who wants anything to do with you will have to accept that.

Gemini: you text while you’re on a date and interrupt your date when you’re supposed to be listening. But your wit, smile and charm win him over. Besides, if he was looking for an unnervingly serious partner, he wouldn’t be into you.

Make It Sexy

Every sign can be sexy, and you’re a pro at maximizing your sign’s appeal.

Leo: you’ve got it all on display, and this works for you. Your confidence can be mistaken for arrogance, as your body, bling and achievements are showcased. You’re only interested in men or women who look good with you. Since you love to play, you have no shortage of playmates.

Sagittarius: you give off the animal vibe that anything’s possible with you. There’s adventure (sexual and otherwise) around the next corner, and your lover had better keep up, but not expect a commitment. You’re never aggressive (just enthusiastic) and you manage to be laid-back yet energetic.

Pisces: you make the depressed/wounded/alcoholic vibe seem appealing. Your romantic nature and otherworldly energy are alluring; others want to figure out your mystery, help you, heal you and love you. You overindulge in escapist behavior/substances, and it comes off as artistic. You attract multiple women and men just by sitting alone, looking wistful. Shifting your story slightly with each new lover ensures a rapid bond (on their end).

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